Homily, 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
Lord, teach us to be humble
Readings: Sirach 3:17-18, 20, 28-29; Hebrews 12:18-19, 22-24a; Luke 14:1, 7-14
Every culture has a different understanding of sharing a meal. In first-century Palestine, a culture that was defined by honor and shame, sitting down to eat with another was an act of acceptance and respect. Meals affirmed the status of those invited – usually of the same social rank as the host.
But in today’s Gospel we get the impression that Jesus has been invited with an ulterior motive as the Pharisees were observing him carefully, perhaps trying to trap him in some cultural or ritual infringement. As the meal progresses, Jesus tells two parables. As they were watching him, so was he observing their behavior. And having seen how they schemed for the best seats at table, Jesus uses the image of the wedding banquet and its seating arrangements to remind them of the true meaning of humility.
Sirach’s call to act with humility in our affairs (our first reading) connects nicely with Jesus’s words to take the last place rather than place of honor in the dining room. Taken together, they remind us that real humility is grounded in seeking God’s favor and placing others before ourselves. By using the banquet image and the possibility of having to give up one’s seat to another of higher rank, Jesus not only highlights the potential for human embarrassment but reminds his listeners that by initially taking the lower position there is equally the potential for greater esteem if one is bought up to a higher position.
This is a very practical lesson for all of us, one that can be applied to daily living on so many levels – at home, at places of work or school. It reminds us that it is not one’s social or intellectual status that is being criticized by Jesus, but how we use those gifts in our interactions with others. The one who is given the task of leadership at any level should not seek to dominate those in their care but be a servant leader, relying on God for strength. They should recognize their own limitations and humanity, when compared to the all-embracing wisdom and love of God, the giver of all gifts.
The virtue of humility is often underappreciated in a world where success and prestige are so highly admired. True humility is not putting ourselves down, or refusing to accept a compliment. Truly humble people acknowledge their strengths and weaknesses in a realistic way.
St Augustine suggests that humility is the foundation of all other virtues- patience, compassion, gentleness, and gentleness. Humility grows best as we learn to accept that we are loved, loved unconditionally, with our strengths and failings – by precious friends, and especially by God. A great model of humility is Mary who, though a pregnant but unmarried young woman with an unlikely story, in a village presumably of gossipers, still “exulted in God” who, she could say in the one breath, “looked on his servant in her lowliness” and at the same time "did great things for her”. Real humility is a witness to the Holy Spirit within us.
I remember the caution of our General Spiritual Director at the Seminary. He used to wisely warn against what he called, “humility with a hook” – doing something that looked humble in order precisely to be honored. Rather than an exercise in humility, it is something motivated by pride, by the desire to be thought well of by others. What matters is not to look humble but to be humble.
Being humble requires trust and contentment. When we are fearful of being overlooked or anxious about how we are perceived, we begin to grasp at “exaltation”. When we strive after the world’s approval it will never satisfy us. But when we let go of this desire, when we are free from prisons of pride, when we stop grasping at acceptance and recognition, we can finally know the peace of God.
May God grant us that receptive heart and attentive ear, that with wisdom and humility we may love God and one another with a sacrificial love.
Jesus, Meek and Humble of Heart, make my heart like unto Thine.
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