June 29, 2023 - Six Months at St Joseph's Food Pantry

Kathy Sabella • June 29, 2023

Who Are the People Served by St. Joseph's Food Pantry?

June 29, 2023: Households Served – 140; Total People Served – 510

• 128 households participated in the Healthy Pantry Initiative at St. Joseph’s by selecting items from a wide range of fresh produce including broccoli, collards, squash, kale, mandarins, and bananas. Marianne and Justin assisted guests filling and carrying bags to cars for incapacitated family members and neighbors without transportation. 

• Food carried to qualifying households by friends or family members is not included in the Healthy Pantry Totals because these households are not on-site to personally participate in the selection of healthy foods for their boxes, nor do they have access to tasting samples.

• Barbara and Danzi welcomed guests to the sharing table where donated clothes and shoes for men, women, and children, as well as household items, were displayed.

• Diapers and wipes donated by supporters were available for children and adults in need of that service.

• Maureen and Lubna invited guests to choose a dessert from the table of pastries donated by local bakeries.

• Joanna offered guests tasting samples of beet salad accompanied by a recipe and some beets. 


This week rather than sharing individual stories, I will present a six-month summary profile of our Thursday guests at St. Joseph’s Food Pantry. It has been a busy six months where volunteers met with 3,321 recipients picking up 12,598 boxes of food accompanied by other necessities including diapers, clothing, household items, toiletries, and cleaning supplies, for men, women and children residing in low-income households in our community. 


Guests at St. Joseph’s in Burgaw represent the diversity of our community with approximately equal participation by ethnicity from our Black/African American, Hispanic/Latino, and White/Anglo population. A more precise summary by ethnicity and age will be forthcoming at the closing of the fiscal year. All participating households are preregistered and screened for eligibility for The Emergency Food Assistance Program (TEFAP). This federal program, which is one of the major contributors to St. Joseph’s Food Pantry, helps supplement the diets of low-income people by providing them with emergency food assistance at no cost. 

Yet as we examine summary data, there are certain profiles that emerge revealing the pockets of poverty that exist in the shadowy corners of our community:

• Senior citizens who struggle with small Social Security checks earned from years in low-income employment. 

• Farm workers, contracted on a part-time basis at low hourly wages without benefits, who cannot support families when debilitating injuries, illness, or inclement weather keeps them at home.

• Construction workers, contracted with sporadic hourly wages, who are left with no resources to support their families when they are ill or injured. 

• Low-income housecleaners, working without benefits, in homes, educational institutions, and businesses.

• Part-time employees in fast-food restaurants. 

• Health-care workers caring for infirm, handicapped, and senior community members in private homes or centers. 

• Contracted part-time factory workers who begin work before dawn in poultry processing plants or hog industries located outside the western perimeters of Pender County. 

• Spouses and parents caring for incapacitated partners or handicapped children/grandchildren who may have matured into adults but remain dependent. 


Volunteers at the pantry make every effort to welcome and value each person who comes for food assistance and to respond compassionately to individual needs.

"Don't neglect to show hospitality, for by doing this some have welcomed angels as guests without knowing it." (Hebrews 13:2)

Homilies

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17 th Sunday of the Year C Gen 18:20-32; Col 2:12-14; Luke 11:1-13 Have you ever had conversations with people who have expressed a distaste for many of the beliefs and practices of organized religion ? Sometimes these criticisms come from people who have had “bad” religious experiences in their own families or have seen what they feel is an ugly side of faith. I understand that. Some others have been hurt and disappointed by the common failings and faults of some of the faithful in the pews. Many others have been particularly crushed by the serious sins of Church leadership. Yet, there are others who simply are trying to be intellectually honest --- people who have truly wrestled with some of the big questions of life and faith and have been relatively unsatisfied with the “answers” religion provides. They “want” to believe at some level but just find too many obstacles. And sometimes that “obstacle” is the image of God presented to them. One particular element of Christianity that I hear criticized so often is the way we seem to ask God for things over and over again. Many people assert that they just, don’t understand why it needs to be this way! They argue: God knows everything. God knows exactly what we need (and want). So why do we need to ask? God has infinite power . There are no limits to what he can do. We don’t have to try to get his “attention” because he is “busy” elsewhere. So why do we need to ask? God is immutable --- which means, unchanging and unchangeable . That means we kind of diminish God if we think we can somehow “ change” his mind. So why bother to pray if God has already written the script? Well, today, in both our First Reading and Gospel passage, we hear examples illustrating the power of pleading with God. In the story from Genesis, we see Abraham “bartering” with God --- seeing if he can somehow get the best “deal” possible. Apparently, Abraham is wise enough to not ask for everything all at once, as if he’s using his charm to coax God’s mercy out of him. God goes along with each of his requests. And in the Gospel passage from Luke --- Jesus tells a story about a man banging on his friend’s door at midnight trying to get some bread for an unexpected guest. The friend initially refuses, but then gets worn down from the persistence of the man and gives in. After relating that story, Jesus utters these “famous” words, “Ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” So, what gives? Do we have to “beg” God to get his blessings or does God actually withhold good things from us until we “wear him down”? Do we have to be expert negotiators, or charmers? Dear friends, an authentic spiritual life is about none of those things. It’s about a relationship supported, strengthened and transformed in part by a holy conversation --- what we call the divine conversation. This is a conversation that has no beginning and no ending, but rather is one that has been continual from the very dawn of time --- a sacred conversation which enables channels of grace to remain open within every single person --- a kind of listening and speaking that helps each of us remain open to an outpouring of God’s life which has the power to change absolutely everything. And so, we bring our needs to our God because we believe he loves us more than we can imagine, because we trust in his wisdom and power, because we need to put into words the deepest longings of our hearts. And maybe most importantly --- we ask, seek, and knock simply because it opens us up to every good thing God wants for us (and from us). Prayer encourages dependence on God and today’s parable shows us perseverance. We do not “keep knocking” because God isn’t aware of our needs but, rather, because we need to remain constantly aware of our daily need for him – our daily bread. Whenever we turn to God in prayer, we put our minds and hearts in contact with the very source of life and truth. And that refreshes the human soul, just as rebooting your computer refreshes the software that makes the computer run. When stress, discouragement, and frustration start to clog our circuits, we don't need to jack up the voltage by working more hours or by distracting ourselves with even more exciting entertainment; no, we need to reboot, we need to pray with perseverance. When you pray say” “Behold, I am your servant, do with and in and through me according to your will” In happy moments, seek God, in hard moments praise God, in quiet moments, trust God, in every moment, thank God. Lord Jesus, teach us to pray.
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