June 22, 2023 at St Joseph Food Pantry in Burgaw

Kathy Sabella • June 22, 2023

June 22, 2023: Households Served – 127; Total People Served – 452

June 22, 2023: Households Served – 127; Total People Served – 452

• 111 households participated in the Healthy Pantry Initiative at St. Joseph’s by selecting items from a wide range of fresh produce including onions, sweet potatoes, collards, squash, potatoes, cherries, and bananas. Volunteers assisted guests as they filled extra bags for incapacitated family members & neighbors without transportation. 

• Food carried to qualifying households by friends or family members is not included in the Healthy Pantry Totals because these households are not on site to personally participate in the selection of healthy foods for their boxes, nor do they have access to tasting samples.

• Joanna prepared tasting samples of bean salad which she offered with bags of beans and a recipe. 

• Barbara and Danzi welcomed guests to the sharing table where donated clothes as well as household items were displayed. This week we were able to support young families with two car seats and one Pack & Play. 

Catholic Charities offered diapers to children and adults who needed them. 

• Maureen and Lubna invited guests to choose a dessert from the table of pastries donated by local bakeries.

• A donated supermarket gift card was gifted to a father recovering from surgery and unable to work. 


Cars filled the parking lot at St. Joseph’s Food Pantry on Thursday morning under dark and threatening skies. Then just before the noon start, the heavens released its fury on the men, women, and children who rushed undaunted to the refuge of the hall. Once seated, Patricia welcomed the wet guests and announced that distribution would be delayed until the lightning ceased. In the interim, Catholic Charities representatives informed guests about the Healthy Opportunities Pilots (HOP) – a free program that offers an array of support services to qualified Medicaid recipients in Bladen, Brunswick, Columbus, New Hanover, Onslow, or Pender County. More information is available at Catholic Charities: (910) 252-8130. 


Mari, newly arrived from Honduras, listened attentively to the presentation in Spanish, but was not eligible for HOP. She lives in in a single room of a trailer home in Wallace with her 5 children. The shelter was provided by a sponsoring friend who facilitated Mari’s entry to the U.S. Mari’s youngest child was born earlier this month, on June 5, just days after she and her four other children ages 14, 10, 8 and 5 had completed the arduous two-month land journey across Guatemala, Mexico, and the U.S. This brave mother of five, not yet confident to reveal her entire story, explained that she had to escape Honduras for the safety of her children. Mari’s selection of donated baby items, together with her allotment of food, combined to fill the car of the sponsor who drove her to St. Joseph’s Food Pantry. 


Later, a staff member from the Domestic Violence Shelter in Pender County arrived bringing with her a young woman of 20, who recently fled an abusive situation. Residents of this temporary shelter are responsible for providing their own food which they can prepare in the on-site kitchen. However, this young woman had no money to buy food. Registering staff at St. Joseph’s alerted the volunteers who were packing and loading the food boxes about the special circumstances of this visitor and then accompanied her as she gratefully responded to invitations to choose her desired items. It soon became apparent how hungry she was as she filled her box with food topped off with 3 loaves of bread!


Sally lit up the hall late in the afternoon. She “owned the floor” in the vacant hall that had become quiet after the midday rush. Sally, had a long career in musical theater, traveling extensively over the United States. Like most artists, she did not earn much money and now at 71 years old, supports herself and a 7-year-old grandson on a mere $550 a month Social Security Check. Volunteers value this woman who works so hard to make us smile. She promised to share some photos on her next visit. Perhaps she will also sing or play her guitar?


It was those who were poor according to the world that God chose to be rich in faith and to be heirs to the Reign of God. (James 2:5)

Homilies

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17 th Sunday of the Year C Gen 18:20-32; Col 2:12-14; Luke 11:1-13 Have you ever had conversations with people who have expressed a distaste for many of the beliefs and practices of organized religion ? Sometimes these criticisms come from people who have had “bad” religious experiences in their own families or have seen what they feel is an ugly side of faith. I understand that. Some others have been hurt and disappointed by the common failings and faults of some of the faithful in the pews. Many others have been particularly crushed by the serious sins of Church leadership. Yet, there are others who simply are trying to be intellectually honest --- people who have truly wrestled with some of the big questions of life and faith and have been relatively unsatisfied with the “answers” religion provides. They “want” to believe at some level but just find too many obstacles. And sometimes that “obstacle” is the image of God presented to them. One particular element of Christianity that I hear criticized so often is the way we seem to ask God for things over and over again. Many people assert that they just, don’t understand why it needs to be this way! They argue: God knows everything. God knows exactly what we need (and want). So why do we need to ask? God has infinite power . There are no limits to what he can do. We don’t have to try to get his “attention” because he is “busy” elsewhere. So why do we need to ask? God is immutable --- which means, unchanging and unchangeable . That means we kind of diminish God if we think we can somehow “ change” his mind. So why bother to pray if God has already written the script? Well, today, in both our First Reading and Gospel passage, we hear examples illustrating the power of pleading with God. In the story from Genesis, we see Abraham “bartering” with God --- seeing if he can somehow get the best “deal” possible. Apparently, Abraham is wise enough to not ask for everything all at once, as if he’s using his charm to coax God’s mercy out of him. God goes along with each of his requests. And in the Gospel passage from Luke --- Jesus tells a story about a man banging on his friend’s door at midnight trying to get some bread for an unexpected guest. The friend initially refuses, but then gets worn down from the persistence of the man and gives in. After relating that story, Jesus utters these “famous” words, “Ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” So, what gives? Do we have to “beg” God to get his blessings or does God actually withhold good things from us until we “wear him down”? Do we have to be expert negotiators, or charmers? Dear friends, an authentic spiritual life is about none of those things. It’s about a relationship supported, strengthened and transformed in part by a holy conversation --- what we call the divine conversation. This is a conversation that has no beginning and no ending, but rather is one that has been continual from the very dawn of time --- a sacred conversation which enables channels of grace to remain open within every single person --- a kind of listening and speaking that helps each of us remain open to an outpouring of God’s life which has the power to change absolutely everything. And so, we bring our needs to our God because we believe he loves us more than we can imagine, because we trust in his wisdom and power, because we need to put into words the deepest longings of our hearts. And maybe most importantly --- we ask, seek, and knock simply because it opens us up to every good thing God wants for us (and from us). Prayer encourages dependence on God and today’s parable shows us perseverance. We do not “keep knocking” because God isn’t aware of our needs but, rather, because we need to remain constantly aware of our daily need for him – our daily bread. Whenever we turn to God in prayer, we put our minds and hearts in contact with the very source of life and truth. And that refreshes the human soul, just as rebooting your computer refreshes the software that makes the computer run. When stress, discouragement, and frustration start to clog our circuits, we don't need to jack up the voltage by working more hours or by distracting ourselves with even more exciting entertainment; no, we need to reboot, we need to pray with perseverance. When you pray say” “Behold, I am your servant, do with and in and through me according to your will” In happy moments, seek God, in hard moments praise God, in quiet moments, trust God, in every moment, thank God. Lord Jesus, teach us to pray.
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