March 2025 St Joseph Food Pantry Report

Kathy Sabella • April 30, 2025

March 2025:  Households Served –675; Individuals Served – 2610

March 2025:  Households Served –675; Individuals Served – 2610


St. Joseph Food Pantry welcomed 2,610 food-insecure neighbors in March: 858 of those receiving food were children and 410 were over the age of 65. Catholic Charities and All Saints Parish supplied diapers for babies, young children and needy adults. St. Mark’s Parish distributed approximately 60 green bags of personal items and cleaning supplies. Staff try to randomize the times of distribution of these celebrated bags so that different households receive them each month. The sharing table was restocked each week in March with warm and like new clothes, household items and toys for children. This month featured a few larger baby items like a Pack n Play. Monetary donations from local parishes in the Cape Fear Deanery including St. Therese and All Saints enabled the volunteers to discreetly give a food or medicine gift cards to families in extreme need.

 

The people who enter the pantry doors each week inspire and touch the hearts of volunteers. They come, receive a friendly welcome, and sometime trust volunteers with their individual stories. Faye is one of many senior visitors, who struggles to survive in the current economy on a monthly Social Security check of a little more than $1,000. Faye worked for a company in Wilmington for approximately 43 years, but did not receive a pension. Small and fragile with beautiful white hair, Faye has reached the age of 84 and moves slowly with her cane to the first available chair. She is noticeably stressed this month. Faye lives in a mobile unit with apparently poor insulation. February’s frigid temperatures resulted in an unprecedented $300 electric bill. Pantry volunteers unsuccessfully reached out to Social Service and Catholic Charities for help with the bill. At the end of March, a new month was added to the bill increasing the amount owed to $600. We are presently counseling Faye to request a payment plan from the Utility Co. which usually precedes a potential cancellation of power. Hopefully, we will find a way to help Faye work through the payment plan.


Jorge visited the Food Pantry for the first time last Thursday. He is a farm worker who has been working in the US for approximately 3 years during which time he learned English. His language skills are extraordinary. Jorge lives with his wife and children. He is one of St. Joseph’s many guests who labor in neighboring farms and food processing plants. They are paid as contracted workers without benefits. Low weekly wages of approximately $300 do not allow them to prepare for unworkable weather conditions, sickness or injury. Jorge suffered a severe stroke last year and can no longer work in the fields. Unable to pay rent, he had to move his wife and 2 children, ages 3 and 14 to a rented room in a mobile home. They share the kitchen and bathroom with the other occupants. The rent for this one room is $700. After hearing his story and providing Jorge with food and gift cards, we advised him to visit St. Mary’s outreach when Patricia, our director, would be there to help him find some assistance. It is possible that the extensive Spanish outreach program at St. Mary’s will offer guidance on how to access resources for the financial recovery of Jorge and his family. 


Later in the afternoon we spotted Tiara in the hall. She had positioned herself diagonally in a back row chair, unable to sit because of the proximity of her baby’s delivery. Tiara is a single mother, 31 years old with no income and appeared to be hours away from the birth of her first child. Tiara did not report any other support nor any dependents. Volunteers reassured Tiara, gave her food, diapers and prayers for a safe delivery. She was way too uncomfortable to delay with conversation for a detailed story. Hopefully, Tiara will return to St. Joseph’s in April with a healthy baby. 


The work at St. Joseph’s Food Pantry is only possible because of our many volunteers and generous neighbors. We would like to thank you for your critical support in this shared outreach.  At the close of each Thursday, volunteers feel privileged to have been entrusted with stories. We mentally braid new stories with others shared by previous guests to form a living cord that connects us with our Creator. We share them with you and ask that you reflect and pray with us as we listen for God’s direction in our effort to continue His compassionate mission of Love. 


Homilies

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17 th Sunday of the Year C Gen 18:20-32; Col 2:12-14; Luke 11:1-13 Have you ever had conversations with people who have expressed a distaste for many of the beliefs and practices of organized religion ? Sometimes these criticisms come from people who have had “bad” religious experiences in their own families or have seen what they feel is an ugly side of faith. I understand that. Some others have been hurt and disappointed by the common failings and faults of some of the faithful in the pews. Many others have been particularly crushed by the serious sins of Church leadership. Yet, there are others who simply are trying to be intellectually honest --- people who have truly wrestled with some of the big questions of life and faith and have been relatively unsatisfied with the “answers” religion provides. They “want” to believe at some level but just find too many obstacles. And sometimes that “obstacle” is the image of God presented to them. One particular element of Christianity that I hear criticized so often is the way we seem to ask God for things over and over again. Many people assert that they just, don’t understand why it needs to be this way! They argue: God knows everything. God knows exactly what we need (and want). So why do we need to ask? God has infinite power . There are no limits to what he can do. We don’t have to try to get his “attention” because he is “busy” elsewhere. So why do we need to ask? God is immutable --- which means, unchanging and unchangeable . That means we kind of diminish God if we think we can somehow “ change” his mind. So why bother to pray if God has already written the script? Well, today, in both our First Reading and Gospel passage, we hear examples illustrating the power of pleading with God. In the story from Genesis, we see Abraham “bartering” with God --- seeing if he can somehow get the best “deal” possible. Apparently, Abraham is wise enough to not ask for everything all at once, as if he’s using his charm to coax God’s mercy out of him. God goes along with each of his requests. And in the Gospel passage from Luke --- Jesus tells a story about a man banging on his friend’s door at midnight trying to get some bread for an unexpected guest. The friend initially refuses, but then gets worn down from the persistence of the man and gives in. After relating that story, Jesus utters these “famous” words, “Ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” So, what gives? Do we have to “beg” God to get his blessings or does God actually withhold good things from us until we “wear him down”? Do we have to be expert negotiators, or charmers? Dear friends, an authentic spiritual life is about none of those things. It’s about a relationship supported, strengthened and transformed in part by a holy conversation --- what we call the divine conversation. This is a conversation that has no beginning and no ending, but rather is one that has been continual from the very dawn of time --- a sacred conversation which enables channels of grace to remain open within every single person --- a kind of listening and speaking that helps each of us remain open to an outpouring of God’s life which has the power to change absolutely everything. And so, we bring our needs to our God because we believe he loves us more than we can imagine, because we trust in his wisdom and power, because we need to put into words the deepest longings of our hearts. And maybe most importantly --- we ask, seek, and knock simply because it opens us up to every good thing God wants for us (and from us). Prayer encourages dependence on God and today’s parable shows us perseverance. We do not “keep knocking” because God isn’t aware of our needs but, rather, because we need to remain constantly aware of our daily need for him – our daily bread. Whenever we turn to God in prayer, we put our minds and hearts in contact with the very source of life and truth. And that refreshes the human soul, just as rebooting your computer refreshes the software that makes the computer run. When stress, discouragement, and frustration start to clog our circuits, we don't need to jack up the voltage by working more hours or by distracting ourselves with even more exciting entertainment; no, we need to reboot, we need to pray with perseverance. When you pray say” “Behold, I am your servant, do with and in and through me according to your will” In happy moments, seek God, in hard moments praise God, in quiet moments, trust God, in every moment, thank God. Lord Jesus, teach us to pray.
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